Short post of rambling thoughts and pet peeves I’ve had while reading the last few days.
Children have “bottoms”. Woman can have a “bottom”, especially if you are describing hers as cute. Men do not have “bottoms” however. Especially not a 6’4 hunk who is so wonderfully dominant that every submissive in his bdsm club started calling him “my liege”, without his encouragement. He has a butt or an ass.
Honey is not an attractive pet-name for your lover, in my humble opinion. Now I know it is a common one and that’s totally cool, but I’ve always used honey for children, and hun for children and friends, so when I’m in the middle of a super sexy chapter and they starting bandying honey about, talk about an instant turn-off. I just immediately think of conversations with kiddigans in my life and the scene is ruined.